I cannot tell you how happy it warms my heart to provide songs that will give you the confidence boost you need. As I compiled this list, I included songs for people of all ages and tastes – there’s something here for everyone.
And since the content on kbinbloom.com is meant for women of color to enjoy, I made sure to include songs by us, for us. No matter your age, you should always strive to feel confident in yourself.
When you feel empowered, happiness radiates from within, and the people around you will notice. So enjoy this list of songs for self-confidence that will have you feeling like the queen you are.
Check out more of playlists covering self-love and self-worth:
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1. Walk Thru, Rich Homie Quan
“I be feeling like the man when I walk through
Ain’t stunting what you saying when I walk through”
Why I love it:
It’s the song lyrics for me. I love the beat, and it’s the perfect song to play before a big meeting, presentation, or even just a regular day, feeling like you can conquer anything. The second line is my daily life motto.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
2. Formation, Beyonce
“I slay (okay), okay (okay), I slay (okay), okay, okay, okay, okay
Okay, okay, ladies, now let’s get in formation, cause I slay”
Why I love it:
This song deserves to be on here, and for good reason too. Beyonce’s vocals are always on point, but the lyrics in this song are a true anthem for women everywhere. The “I slay” line has become a popular saying for women when they feel confident and own their power, and with Beyonce being the queen of empowerment, it’s only fitting for her to have a spot on this list.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
3. Know Your Worth, Khalid
“Gotta keep, gotta keep, gotta keep your head up
Who puts you first?
Find someone who loves you at your worst”
Why I love it:
When you’re looking to have a good time with yourself or your best friends, this song reminds you to never settle for anything less than what you deserve. Khalid’s smooth vocals make it easy to listen to and sing along with.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
4. Her, Megan Thee Stallion
“‘m her, her, her, her, her, her, her, her
She, she, she, she, she, she, she
Take a pic’, it’s me, me, me, me, me, me, me
Tell your friends “this her, her, her, her, her, her, her, her” (ah)”
Why I love it:
It oozes self-esteem, and this is the perfect tune to turn on when you’re getting some movement on while battling self-doubt. Megan Thee Stallion has songs that make you want to connect your echo to your phone and dance your heart out.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
5. Break My Soul, Beyonce
“I’m lookin’ for motivation
I’m lookin’ for a new foundation, yeah
And I’m on that new vibration
I’m buildin’ my own foundation, yeah
Hold up, oh, baby, baby”
Why I love it:
It’s no surprise that Beyonce appears more than once on this list because she has some of the best songs for promoting confidence despite life issues one may be experiencing.
This song specifically has a slower, more reflective tone and reminds us to push through and build our foundation – in life, relationships, career – whatever it may be.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
6. Be Alive, Beyonce
“I got a million miles on me (me)
They want to see how far I’ll go (they want to see how far I’ll go)
The path was never paved with gold (gold)
We fought and built this on our own
(We fought and built this on our own, own)”
Why I love it:
The next time you feel like giving up, put on this empowering anthem. It’s a reminder that obstacles and challenges are to be expected, but we are resilient enough to handle them and come out even more vital. This song’s theme keeps me repeating it during difficult times when I question if I can take it all.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
7. New Apartment, Ari Lennox
“I might just read a book, don’t need no cable
Blast Selena, “El Toro Relajo”
And everything stays where I leave it
Every damn rule I created”
Why I love it:
I experience a bit of nostalgia when I listen to this self-love track because it reminds me of old-school R & B songs, with Ari Lennox’s soft vocals and simplistic instrumentals. But more importantly, it exudes confidence and acceptance.
The lyrics talk about embracing alone time and doing things that make you happy without needing validation from anyone else. Plus, the music video reminds me of the time when so many of us transitioned from being college graduates to fully independent women paying our own bills, decorating our apartments, and living life on our own terms.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
8. I’m Every Woman, Whitney Houston
“I’m every woman
It’s all in me
Anything you want done baby
I do it naturally
I’m every woman
It’s all in me”
Why I love it:
The power of music gets me every time, and this classic hit by Whitney Houston never fails to boost my self-confidence. It’s a reminder that, as women, we can accomplish everything we set our minds to – we just have to believe in ourselves.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
9. Wonder Woman, Lion Babe
“Oh, I got power (Wonder Woman powers)
I see signs
They shouting “Honey, (Wonder Woman powers)
Watch your behind!”
They can’t catch me (Wonder Woman powers)
‘Cause I’m too strong
They all want what I got
Never leaving me alone”
Why I love it:
This is a good song for when you need that extra push. The lyrics talk about embracing your inner strength and power and promoting self-love while shutting out naysayers. It’ll put you on your path to success and remind you of all your unique qualities.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
10. Grown Woman, Beyonce
“I’m a grown woman
I can do whatever I want.
I’m a grown woman
I can do whatever I want.”
Why I love it:
This hit song will turn you into a dancing queen with its infectious beat and chorus. And the lyrics promote self-empowerment and independence, reminding us that we are in charge of our own lives and can do whatever we set our minds to.
Add it to your playlist: Youtube
11. Crown, Kelly Rowland
“I wear my crown
Show it off, go, girl
Show it off, go, girl
My hair, my crown
Wear it how you want, girl
Show it off, go, girl”
Why I love it:
The single thing about this song that stands out to me is its focus on self-esteem and embracing your unique beauty. Kelly Rowland’s catchy lyrics remind us that we should be proud of who we are and wear our “crown” (aka our inherent worth and confidence) with pride.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
12. Get it Girl, Saweetie
“Get it, get it, get it, get it, get it, girl”
Why I love it:
In every single way, this song is all about girl power and female empowerment. It’s a reminder to go for what you want, and it’s okay to carry on with confidence and ambition that some might label “aggressive.”
Saweetie’s verses are filled with self-love and encouragement, motivating you to go after your dreams and be the boss girl you were meant to be.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
13. The Glow, Victoria Monet
“When you got the glow, you feel the one, when you got the glow, your body’s gold
So don’t let go, of the power of elevation”
Why I love it:
If you’re someone that battles low self-esteem, it’s hard to not believe what Victoria Monet is singing when listening to this song. You may even start feeling great things are in your future and envision yourself reaching new heights and achieving your goals.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
14. About Damn Time, Lizzo
“Turn up the music, turn down the lights
I got a feelin’ I’m gon’ be alright
Okay (okay), alright
It’s about damn time (time)”
Why I love it:
There’s no better way to describe this song other than pure confidence. Lizzo’s powerful vocals and lyrics remind us that it’s about time we start believing in ourselves and living our best lives without hesitation or fear.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
15. Level Up, Ciara
“I just keep elevating, no losses, just upgrading
My lessons, made blessings, I turned that into money
Thank God I never settled, this view is so much better”
Why I love it:
This is the perfect cheer anthem for big girls (grown women) to level up and make life moves. Ciara’s lyrics encourage us to always strive for growth, to never settle for anything less than our dreams, and to trust the journey and process of becoming our best selves.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
16. Amazing, Mary J. Blige
“Every day like my birthday, bring the cake in
Bring the cake in, bring the cake in
I feel good, I feel great, man, I feel amazing”
Why I love it:
The most poignant part of the song is when Mary J. Blige declares, “I feel good, I feel great, man, I feel amazing.” It’s a blessing to respond to someone asking how you are with such a positive and confident attitude. And this song will make you feel good, great, and amazing.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
17. Attitude, Leikeili 47
“Attitude, attitude, attitude
Attitude, attitude, attitude, attitude”
Why I love it:
The word “attitude” repeated in the chorus is all you’ll need to boost your confidence. The song’s overall message is to have a positive attitude and carry yourself with pride, knowing that you’re worth it and deserving of all the good things in life. From the cultural references to the attitude-filled beats, this self-esteem song will surely bring out your inner boss.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
18. Flawless, Beyonce
“I woke up like this, I woke up like this
We flawless, ladies, tell ’em
I woke up like this, I woke up like this”
Why I love it:
Even during hard times, these songs’ lyrics remind us that we are still flawless and can conquer any obstacles that come our way. In addition, Beyonce’s iconic delivery of these lines serves as a daily reminder to love ourselves and be proud of who we are and all that we have accomplished.
And if Beyonce’s lyrics aren’t enough, sampling Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s TED talk about feminism only adds to the songs empowering message that will put you on the right track to feeling like a powerful woman.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
19. Kolobi, Tiwa Savage
“Do as you like o
Take your time to count your blessings
And be grateful for your live”
Why I love it:
I found this on my playlist featuring self-love songs, but I realized it is about more than just love yourself. It’s also about gratitude and appreciation. This song reminds us to be grateful for the things we have in our lives and to trust ourselves to make decisions that will lead us to success and happiness. It’s a great way to promote confidence and positivity daily.
Add it to your playlist: Youtube
20. Altitude, Tiana Major9
“Fasten your seatbelts
And turn on your flight mode
‘Cause we’re going up
Surfing the galaxies”
Why I love it:
This song is about letting go of self-doubt and soaring high in life. Tiana Major9’s vocals are smooth and soothing, while the lyrics remind you to trust yourself and the journey you’re on. It’s a great confidence booster when you need the inspiration to keep pushing toward your goals.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
21. I Love Me Too, Kirby
“Uh-huh, baby, I love me too, honey
Mhm, baby, I love me too
Aw, that makes two of us baby
If you don’t love yourself, baby, who will?”
Why I love it:
The greatest love we will ever have is love for ourselves. And this song, sung by up-and-coming artist Kirby, celebrates a little mix of self-love and confidence. The playful beats and lyrics make this a great addition to any self-confidence playlist.
Add it to your playlist: Spotify, Youtube
Listening to music for healthy self esteem
Music can uplift our moods and boost our confidence, making it an excellent tool for practicing positive self-esteem. So next time you need a boost, make sure to add some songs for self-confidence to your playlist and let the music work its magic.
